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Remembering the Heroism of a Lynbrook School
Crossing Guard 45 Years Ago
Witness Comes Forward for the First Time
By Former
Village Trustee Steve Grogan
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He was just a
nine-year-old boy, a fourth grader at Our
Lady of Peace School on Merrick Road in
Lynbrook. It was noon as he walked down
Peninsula Boulevard, heading home for lunch
on this damp and dreary April day. The boy
lived on Irwin Court, a short street just
behind Flinch and Bruns Funeral Home and a
very short walk from the busy intersection
of Peninsula Boulevard and Hempstead Avenue
where the boy would cross to get home.
On this day, as
always, the boy was met by the school
crossing guard that helped protect the
children crossing that busy intersection.
The crossing guard greeted the small boy
with a smile, took his hand, and began to
cross him. They first crossed Hempstead
Avenue to the northeast side of the
intersection. Then when the light changed
again, and still holding his hand, she took
him across Peninsula Boulevard, going
southbound.
This day,
however would be different from all those
other days of walking to and from school. It
would be a day that the boy would forget for
all these years, until recently. That boy
was Joe Calderone, and on this day, April
30, 1963, he witnessed one of Lynbrook’s
most tragic accidents. An accident that took
the life of that school crossing guard who
held his hand just seconds before.
Three Lynbrook
volunteer firefighters would also die along
with Mrs. Roy at that intersection just
moments after the young boy was crossed.
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Joe
Calderone has never
talked about what
happened that day.
He is now a grown man
with his own child.
He believes that until
recently he blocked the
tragedy out of his mind.
What happened that day
now bothers him, and
recently he began
thinking about the
crossing guard who died
that April day?
The memories all came
back when he recently
saw two crossing guards
at an eatery in Franklin
Square and he began to
think about Mrs. Roy,
and her own family, and
had some sleepless
nights.
Curious about that
accident so many years
ago, Joe went to the
Lynbrook Fire Department
website to see what was
written about the
accident and found the
story that this writer
wrote. Joe said he was
“shocked how accurate
the fire department
story was.”
Even though it has been
nearly 45 years since
that deadly crash, what
happened that day is
still a vivid memory to
him. He knows he
was the last person to
be with Mrs. Roy before
she was killed.
Joe recently sat down
with this writer and Art
Mattson, the Village
Historian, to tell his
story. A story he said
needed to be told about
Mrs. Roy and that is why
he came forward.
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He recalled that
while he walked down Peninsula Blvd toward
his home that day he heard the fire horns
blowing. “They were loud,” he said. The
horns at the time were on top of the old
Municipal Building on Merrick Road, just
opposite the block where he lived. He also
remembered vividly the big smile and
greeting he got from Mrs. Roy that day when
he approached her and she came over to help
him cross the intersection. It was the same
smile and friendliness that she always gave
him and the other O.L.P. children that she
crossed daily. He especially remembered how
she always took his hand, usually his right
hand, and carefully escorted him across the
two intersections for him to get home.
On that April
day, Mrs. Roy began to take him across
Peninsula Boulevard as the sound of sirens
could be heard from further down Hempstead
Avenue from the direction of Merrick Road,
or the “village” as commonly referred to for
those of us raised here. Joe sensed as he
was being crossed that something had caught
Mrs. Roy’s attention and he looked up at her
and then looked in the same direction.
There was a fire engine in the distance
approaching with its sirens wailing. Just
then Mrs. Roy turned her head and suddenly
looked up Peninsula Boulevard towards
Merrick Road. There were more sirens coming
from that direction. She saw another fire
engine approaching from that direction.
Mrs. Roy had a
“look of fear on her face as if something
bad was going to happen,” Joe said. He then
looked in the same direction and saw the
fire engine rushing down Peninsula Boulevard
towards them and the intersection. He
remembered there was no traffic on Peninsula
Boulevard at that time except for three or
four cars waiting in the turn lane to make a
left from Peninsula Boulevard onto Hempstead
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With fire
engines coming from both directions to where
they were, Mrs. Roy began walking faster
across the intersection, practically pulling
Joe along. Just before the two of them got
to the curb by Flinch and Bruns Funeral
Home, Mrs. Roy let go of Joe’s hand and
shoved him towards the curb as the fire
sirens got louder and louder and the engines
got closer and closer to them. “As she
shoved me to the curb, her only words to me
were, “Hurry, Hurry!” he said.
As Joe stepped
on the curb, out of the corner of his eye he
saw the fire engine coming down Hempstead
Avenue toward the intersection. He turned
and looked for Mrs. Roy who was no longer
with him. She was gone. She had turned
around and quickly went back out into the
intersection. He remembered seeing her put
her left hand high in the air in the
direction of Hempstead Avenue traffic and
that approaching fire engine. At the same
time she raised her right hand and held it
toward the traffic in the turn lane on
Peninsula Boulevard and the other
approaching fire engine.
As the sirens
grew louder Joe stepped into the village
municipal parking lot next to the funeral
home. He said he continued to look at Mrs.
Roy with her arms raised as he walked slowly
toward home. He however “sensed something
was very wrong,” but said, “I didn’t know
what I was thinking. I was so frightened and
the noise was so loud, then I heard the
crash.”
On that April
day, 45 years ago, those two Lynbrook fire
engines collided in that intersection with a
loud crashing of metal that was heard blocks
away. Joe doesn’t remember actually seeing
the engines collide. He only remembers the
sound of it. He then ran as fast as he
could to his house where he was met by his
mother at the door.
He told her,
“She just crossed me across the street.”
Joe’s mother
went out the door to see what she had heard
so loud inside her house. Joe stayed in the
house for only a minute before deciding to
go back to see what happened to Mrs. Roy. As
he ran down his block a neighbor yelled out
to him, “Joey, don’t go there!”
Back at the
intersection, Joe looked all around for Mrs.
Roy but she was nowhere to be found. He
doesn’t remember seeing the firefighters
that were thrown to the ground after the
collision. He doesn’t remember seeing the
police, an ambulance, or bystanders, at the
scene. Joe only recalls seeing the smashed
rear of one of the fire engines. He also
does not recall anyone stopping him from
looking at the scene either. He wonders
today, “Did I see everything, and did I just
block everything out all these years?”
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Newspaper
accounts about that tragic day reported that
the fire engines were responding, shortly
after noon, for a house fire on Earle
Avenue, which is one block past Joe’s
street. The newspapers stated that Mrs. Roy
apparently sensed what was about to happen
and entered the intersection to try and stop
them.
The impact of
the crash threw firefighters to the pavement
around the intersection. Nine firefighters
were injured. One firefighter died that day
and two others died the following days.
Mrs. Roy was struck and thrown onto the lawn
of the Penbrook Apartments on the northeast
corner of the intersection. She died
instantly.
The local
newspapers wrote that the crash was
attributed to “the treacherous surface of
Peninsula Boulevard.” It reported that the
“road surface was slippery with oil and
water. The papers also said that neither of
the fire trucks was reported to have been
speeding at the time of the accident.
While the memory
of the three firefighters killed in the line
of duty that day are remembered on the
Firefighters Memorial on Sunrise Highway, a
stone memorial was also placed on the lawn
of the Penbrook Apartments at Peninsula and
Hempstead. That is the spot where Mrs. Roy
died in the line of duty doing her job for
our community.

Joe Calderone
doesn’t know why he came forward now or why
he has never talked about Mrs. Roy, or the
accident. But he now wants everyone to
know, even if it is 45 years ago, that he
believes she is a hero.
“She got
me to safety and then went into the
trouble that she saw coming. Firefighters
run toward the danger, and Mrs. Roy did the
same thing that day. I was the last person
she touched. I take nothing from the three
firefighters that died because I didn’t know
them. I knew Mrs. Roy. She was my guardian
angel. I will always remember what she did
that day,” he said. |
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